While I was walking with 'Abdullah at Mina, 'Uthman رضی اللہ عنہ happened to meet him. He stopped there and began to talk with him. Uthman said to him: Abu 'Abdul-Rahman, should we not marry you to a young girl who may recall to you some of the past of your bygone days; thereupon he said: If you say so, Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم) said: O young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes from casting (evil glances). and preserves one from immorality; but those who cannot should devote themselves to fasting for it is a means of controlling sexual desire.
While I was going along with 'Abdullah bin Ma'sud (رضی اللہ عنہ) in Mina, 'Uthman bin 'Affan (رضی اللہ عنہ) happened to meet him and said: Come here, Abu 'Abdul-Rahman (kunya of Abdullah bin Mas'ud), and he isolated him (from me), and when 'Abdullah (bin Mas'ud) رضی اللہ عنہ saw that there was no need (for this privacy), he said to me: 'Alqama, come on, and so I went there. (Then) 'Uthman رضی اللہ عنہ said to him: Abu Abdul-Rahman, should we not marry you to a virgin girl that your past may be recalled to your mind? 'Abdullah رضی اللہ عنہ said: If you say so, the rest of the hadith is the same as narrated above.
Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said to us: O young men, those among you who can support a wife should marry, for it restrains eyes (from casting evil glances) and preserves one from immorality; but he who cannot afford It should observe fast for it is a means of controlling the sexual desire.
I and my uncle 'Alqama and al-Aswad went to 'Abdullah bin Mas'ud (رضی اللہ عنہ). He (the narrator further) said: I was at that time young, and he narrated a hadith which it seemed he narrated for me that Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) said like one transmitted by Mu'awiya, and further added: I lost no time in marrying.
Dan telah menceritakan kepadaku Abu Bakar bin Nafi' Al Abdi telah menceritakan kepada kami Bahz telah menceritakan kepada kami Hammad bin Salamah dari Tsabit dari Anas bahwa sekelompok orang dari kalangan sahabat Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam bertanya kepada isteri-isteri Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam mengenai amalan beliau yang tersembunyi. Maka sebagian dari mereka pun berkata, "Saya tidak akan menikah." Kemudian sebagian lagi berkata, "Aku tidak akan makan daging." Dan sebagian lain lagi berkata, "Aku tidak akan tidur di atas kasurku." Mendengar ucapan-ucapan itu, Nabi shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam memuji Allah dan menyanjung-Nya, kemudian beliau bersabda: "Ada apa dengan mereka? Mereka berkata begini dan begitu, padahal aku sendiri shalat dan juga tidur, berpuasa dan juga berbuka, dan aku juga menikahi wanita. Maka siapa yang saja yang membenci sunnahku, berarti bukan dari golonganku."
Dan Telah menceritakan kepada kami Abu Bakr bin Abu Syaibah telah menceritakan kepada kami Abdullah bin Al Mubarak -dalam riwayat lain- Dan Telah menceritakan kepada kami Abu Kuraib Muhammad bin Al Ala` -lafazh darinya- telah mengabarkan kepada kami Ibnul Mubarak dari Ma'mar dari Az Zuhri dri Sa'id bin Al Musayyab dari Sa'd bin Abu Waqash ia berkata; Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam pernah melarang Utsman bin Mazh'un untuk membujang selamanya, karena semata-mata hendak melakukan ibadah kepada Allah. Andaikan beliau mengizinkannya, tentulah kami sudah mengebiri diri kami sendiri."
Dan telah menceritakan kepadaku Abu Imran Muhammad bin Ja'far bin Ziyad telah menceritakan kepada kami Ibrahim bin Sa'd dari Ibnu Syihab Az Zuhri dari Sa'id bin Al Musayyab ia berkata, saya mendengar Sa'd berkata; Utsman bin Mazh'un pernah dilarang untuk membujang selamanya, karena semata-mata hendak melakukan ibadah kepada Allah. Andaikan beliau mengizinkannya, tentulah kami sudah mengebiri diri kami sendiri."
Telah menceritakan kepada kami Muhammad bin Rafi' telah menceritakan kepada kami Hujain bin Al Mutsanna telah menceritakan kepada kami Laits dari Uqail dari Ibnu Syihab bahwa ia berkata, telah mengabarkan kepadaku Sa'id bin Al Musayyab bahwa ia mendengar Sa'd bin Abu Waqash berkata; "Utsman bin Mazh'un untuk hidup membujang, lalu Rasulullah shallallahu 'alaihi wasallam melarangnya. Andaikan beliau mengizinkannya, tentulah kami sudah mengebiri diri kami sendiri."
Allah's Messenger ( صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم ) saw a woman, and so he came to his wife, Zainab رضی اللہ عنہا , as she was tanning a leather and had sexual intercourse with her. He then went to his Companions and told them: The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart.